#IrishTwins

Double Trouble

Remy and baby #2 (for the sake of not typing "baby #2" 100 times, I'm going to refer to him/her as Ruger, which Ellen would never let me name our child) are going to be 11 months apart which will make them Irish twins. This got me thinking about all the unique things that will happen with Ellen and I as well as Remy and Ruger.

Breaking The News

Telling people we were pregnant again was interesting. Most people didn’t know how to react to the news. we got responses from the standard “congratulations” to “oh my” and “poor girl”. I guess I can sort of understand that, it’s not a super common thing and most people haven’t encountered the situation. But it was still a little jarring at first. So, let’s clear the air.

• No, we didn’t plan this. But we had every intention of having another child.

• Yes, we are ecstatic.

• Yes, it will be difficult for a while.

• No, we aren't worried.

Ellen is a fantastic mom. I like to think I'm a decent dad, and together we can tackle anything. We both know it will be hard at first, but we will make it through it just like we do everything else.

Sharing Is Caring

Remy will never remember the 11 months that he was an only child. He will never remember a time when he received 100% of the attention. He will never remember a time where he didn't have to share toys or food or whatever it may be. This is a good thing! He will grow up being forced to share everything with his little brother/sister. Sharing is such a good thing to start early because I think it transfers really well into life in general. Except instead of sharing toys, you are sharing time.

Easier or Harder Than Actual Twins?

It has to be easier right? I mean, we won't have two infants. When Ruger is born, Remy will be able to walk. He will be able to sit down and watch a tv show or two. He won't need to be spoon-fed and he will eat real food. That has to be easier than double bottles and double screaming infants, right? I actually have no clue, so what I would love is for all of you to chime in and let me know what we are in for. Any tips and tricks for dealing with children so close in age?